Alternatively, if you know the persons screen name, you can use the search by login feature.
Wanting meet men regardless of community or safety on a site like okcupid.
You can also enter a few sentences, describing yourself in your own words. The search engine button appears on the left panel, and this allows you to locate matches by age, and the country where they live.
Its also possible to show only profiles with pictures.
So unless you are living on a mountain fire lookout tower somewhere, you'll probably find some great people nearby that you can try to seduce into a coffee date. When it comes to your personal life, some things are best not immediately shared with friends and family.
Otherwise, perhaps you can convince some lucky person to come visit your lookout tower? So be sensible and keep your Facebook, Twitter, and other social sites separate from your dating life!