Because I'm still on my 4th of July holiday, I've decided to reflect once more on this great country of yours, and how its qualities and foibles lend itself to my dating life.
Tuesday I went off, -style, on how this is the best country in the world for dating.
They explain that a change in mindset is essential for women over 60 who want to find romance.
But I would never do that to my Dad who would be very upset if I did. When I meet a man and I am without my husband, I’ll place within the first minutes of the conversation that “my husband blablabla… That usually is enough to make my state of mind really clear.
I did the same thing as a girl, talking about my boyfriend (actually existing or not) early on in the conversation. And some people are just not faithful, but contrary to popular opinion, it’s not worse in France than anywhere else (and several studies demonstrate it). It’s in our genes and it’s socially accepted in France.
Americans have so many dating, career and lifestyle options that getting any man to focus on one person for enough time to develop the feelings that manifest themselves in those words is a major, major achievement (Have you played This is what your mom tells you the first time a girl breaks your heart, but in America, there is literally an ocean of single women and men to move on to.
In every city across this country, bars are literally overflowing with other lonely people looking to share an awkward cup of coffee with you the next morning.