Nowadays, "We met online" is a common response from couples who are asked how they got together.
She may conclude that you just want to be online friends and turn her attention to another online dater.
Any woman who has an ounce of self-esteem should value herself enough to turn all of you tactless, impatient, schmucks down. Which is why it kills me even worse that you don’t learn. Picture some woman coming up to you and asking you how much you made for a living.
Or perhaps quickly trying to gauge your penis size. “I don’t want to waste my time.” Which is pretty much your defense for offering to go to the phone before she’s comfortable.
So as a rule you should ask for her number the first time you meet her so she’ll know right off that you are interested and have the guts to go for it.
Just as you don’t want to wait too long to ask a girl for her number, it is also important to take a couple of minutes to chat with her before attempting to get the digits.