In Finding the One Online, I give you 7 hours of audio, a 180 page transcript, a 35 page workbook – and tips on everything from choosing the right site, to writing a compelling online dating profile, to taking the right photos, to flirting effectively via email so that every single person will want to meet you in person. What’s the most memorable username you’ve ever seen on a dating site?I’m quite sure our readers are not going to copy them for their own personal usage. The most memorable (in a good way) were a Blond Moment, Polyglotapus, and Toe_Tap_N.A 2010 academic study, frequently cited in blog posts about online dating, claimed that women were most attracted to usernames that suggest "intelligence" (while men preferred sexy usernames). But this oft quoted study is 7 years old; bronze age online dating wisdom at best, when compared to the A. Imagine what life would be like, with regular dates setup for you, on a silver platter?Matthew Valentines is an online dating concierge, and executive director at Personal Dating Assistants.So, don't shy away from showcasing your true personality through the name.Thinking up the perfect clever username for Po F, Okcupid or Match is hard work.DO: BE THOUGHTFUL ABOUT YOUR USERNAME People gloss over this one too often, and maybe it’s because we’re in a time when people tend to use their real names, or variations thereof, in many of their online interactions. Remember back to when picking your AIM username was a serious task?It was your identity, your marker, and you’d better be happy with picking “DMX123” because you could be stuck with it for years.
Most people take one of two wrong tacks when coming up with an online dating username: 1) Putting ZERO thought into it: Bill10247, Claire T, Ally Cat 2) Putting minimal thought into it, using a literal description: Tall Doctor, Gorgeous Goddess, Fun2Be Around The problem with these efforts, of course, is not that they’re “bad”, but rather that they’re BORING. All of them are plays off of real names, idioms or catchphrases, which is why they evoke smiles from readers.Creating a memorable username is a smart way to appeal to the type of people you want to attract.The journey of finding the right kind of person for yourself begins with you selecting a username that is clear, easy to remember, quirky/fun, and positive.With millions of singles crawling through various dating sites and apps, looking for a potential match, your username is the first thing they'll come across; reading it will give them a first impression.Your objective is to find a decent enough, yet slightly unusual username which stands out from all the other names. Usually, usernames don't have any spaces between the words, and hence, the use of capital letters is required in order to separate it.