Somewhere deep down you may hope that the brooding bad boy is going to suddenly change — perhaps order you a refill when you head to the bathroom instead of talking up the bartender. A nice guy is just that: He cares about your feelings, is interested in spending time with you, and is courteous.
As usual, the denizens of the manosphere have their tighty whities in a twist, shouting “What’s in it for men? Close to 70 percent don’t know if they’re on a date when they go on a date.”Walsh isn’t scolding men to date more – he’s telling men who want to date that their strategy sucks.Being reliable isn't just something he saves for his bros. So, when you text him "I'm so tired today," he responds within minutes (not a day later) with a "Me too. "There's never a shortage of something new to talk about.It's only been four dates, but you already can't wait to tell him about your day and listen to him recount his.We'd begun dating sophomore year of college, after a summer of exchanging letters stuffed with dried rose petals.He was my first long-term boyfriend, the first guy I slept with, and we lived together after college in pseudo-married bliss, refinishing furniture and inventing names for our future children. So I left, blithely unconcerned about my romantic future.