If you’re at a restaurant, for example, and they’re taking a bit longer to get you your table, does he take it in stride, or does he start to lose his temper?Even when people are on their best behavior, it’s hard to hide long-standing habits, so watch what he does in a variety of situations.Then he shows up or else if he's running late, he'll call you. A Jerk Makes All The Decisions For Both Of You, Thinking He Knows What's Best For You No one knows you better than you and a good guy will make sure your feelings and thoughts are part of the decision process. A Jerk Doesn't Make Sure You Feel Emotionally, Physically Or Spiritually Safe You may feel financially safe with him but that's not enough.He'll be the one criticizing what you wear or how you do things.A good guy will work issues out with you and even if he disagrees with the final decision, he will keep it to himself. A Jerk Asks You For A Date But Doesn't Call To Confirm Whether It's Happening You end up calling him and he holds your life up, telling you he's not sure how long his meeting is going to be.
What I’m going to offer you here is something a little different – a few key items that will help you determine if the guy sitting across from you on a date is a quality man who is capable of a commitment.HIS MATURITY LEVEL What I’m referring to here is “emotional” maturity.You can find out about this rather quickly when you meet a guy simply by observing how he reacts to things and how he treats the people around him. I hate to be a downer, but the "good guy" isn't the magic bad-boyfriend remedy you might think he is.The "good guy" trap fools us into thinking we won't have to look critically at his shortcomings, our compatibility, and even his emotional availability.