Well at this point, the guy realizes that you really like him, he has you, and he’s no longer worried that he could lose you to another guy.
At this point, things are probably starting to get comfortable- you make plans regularly, you’re in contact more frequently, and a relationship seems just around the corner.
While the term has several meanings, the most frequent usage refers to two or more people exploring whether they are romantically or sexually compatible by participating in dates with the other.
With the use of modern technology, people can date via telephone or computer or meet in person.
For example, if you read a couple romance novels, you will likely come away with plenty of ideas on where to go for a date, other than the somewhat boring default options of meeting for coffee or watching a movie.
Now while you might start getting really excited by this prospect, this particular guy has probably gotten freaked out.
At this point, he’s afraid that everything he said in the beginning has led you to believe that you guys are a couple and he starts acting in a way that shows you this is not the case.
I've written for several different publishers, including Harlequin Books, Leisure Books, Berkley/Jove, St.
Martin's Pres I've always been an incurable romantic.