This list focuses on the things I coached them on that worked and helped them to get through one of the most hellacious periods of their life.
Why Some Relationships Fail Before getting into the meat of what to do, I’d like to take a little bit of time to share with you statistics about relationships.
The first question that must be answered is: Why is he getting a divorce and what is the timeline?Now in nearly all cases this isn't the parent's first choice; they don't For some divorcing parents, particularly moms or whomever was the kids' primary caregiver, this new free time can be something they haven't had in years. All of us need structure in our lives, although hectic and overwhelming at times, it's good for us to have structure because it keeps us out of trouble.So Meagan's new found free time combined with her desire to "have some fun" and for companionship has resulted in her spending a lot of time at a couple of local restaurants with bars. Let's look at a recent couple to see some of the ways dating during divorce can be a negative. The reasons aren't so important, but it is a mutual decision to end their marriage. Having counseled divorcing couples for more than a decade, I've seen plenty of bad examples of couples doing a poor job preventing the divorce from negatively affecting their lives and parenting.