On the other hand if you call too soon, you might come across as needy or desperate. One thing you can do is talk about meeting again towards the middle or end of your first date and get a feel for what your date is thinking. When would be a good time for me to call you again? If you make arrangements and promise to call at a specific time, make sure you do it if you really like someone. If you want a second date, think about when, where, and what you will do. Instead of saying, 'would you like to go out on a second date', it's better to give them two or three choices, - no more than that at one time. You want to create the same chemistry that you felt on your first date or at least start with something that you have in common.
If you can't call, let them know right away that something's come up and then ask them what would be a good time. What do you want to accomplish by making this call? If you give people too many choices, they may need to 'think about it'. Most of time you don't know if they're interested or not. You don't want to spend a lot of time on the phone but you don't want it to be quick either. After a couple of minutes get down to the purpose of your call.
Or he might call in a couple of hours because he missed you already. If you wait much longer than that, it's like 'spoiled milk'.
If the other person was interested, they're probably not anymore because you waited too long. At the end of your first date you can ask like this, 'I enjoyed our first date. If they have time to talk, tie in a conversation from your first date that you both enjoyed.
Dates tend to have two different endings: either you don’t want to see him or her again, or you look forward to see your date as soon as possible.
Or, if a woman decides she wants to have sex with you on the first date, respect that decision too! Have a two-sided conversation instead of talking at her.
Take things slow and enjoy getting to know each other.
There are no rules about when to have sex for the first time with a new potential partner.
Worried your next date will bail if he's not into you?
Don't, because found only 12 percent of singles would actually leave before the night was over.