You crave a strong, deep relationship and rely on your trusty logic and intellect to know that you are keeping your partner satisfied both physically and emotionally.You are not the one who will fall hard and fast in a passionate love affair.When it comes to your romantic life, your propensity toward frank honesty and subsequent disregard for the more sentimental flirtations that come along with the dating game are your biggest weaknesses.You are by no means forward when it comes to the dating game.You often wait for your partner to make the first move.But you let your natural intellect shine through in the way you flirt with plenty of clever wordplay and games.
Typically they’ll be there before heading to a small divey but not too divey bar to have a moderately pretentious microbrew with their one other friend.
Strongly humanitarian in outlook, INFJs tend to be idealists, and because of their J preference for closure and completion, they are generally "doers" as well as dreamers.
This rare combination of vision and practicality often results in INFJs taking a disproportionate amount of responsibility in the various causes to which so many of them seem to be drawn.
Pickup technique: Ask them about Rilke, social justice, chai tea.
ENFJ-Why you want one: They’re warm, friendly, and very concerned about your happiness.