And quite frankly, I was so relieved not to be living in the day-to-day sadness of my marriage that I simply ignored it completely. And as truth is stranger than fiction, a game show "tile-turning" model. No matter what type of relationship your ex is having with someone , your relationship is over for a reason.The second time this happened to me, however, it stung. To make matters worse, she was skinnier than I a born-again Christian. During this time of my life I didn't handle it well at all. I called and texted him, screaming in all caps about how he needs to date someone his age and judging his obvious yet early midlife crisis. Creating negative energy around someone you hardly know, or harboring resentment for someone you used to share your life with, is not a very positive way to live your life.While some of these relationships last, know that detaching yourself from the outcome as quickly as possible will ultimately help you get on with your life.
Instead, try your best to surround yourself with positivity and uplifting things.Not only do you have to deal with getting him back but getting him back from someone else.Use another poster board to list your most attractive characteristics, physically, emotionally and spiritually.Use a third poster board to write down the following mistakes one should never make when trying to get an ex back: Do not buy him gifts to win his love back. Spend your time doing things you put on hold to be in a relationship with him.Do not cry, beg, reason or argue with him about getting back together. Take your mind off of your sadness by working out, picking up a new hobby, perfecting a talent or traveling.