It’s clear that you like each other, and you begin to open up more and more. You can feel it in the way he treats you, in the length of time it takes him to return your calls, in the excuses he’s using, in the difference in his touch. Pretty soon, you find yourself unsure about how to respond.
Whatever the specific reason, if your man is withdrawing because he’s doubting the future of your relationship, you probably ought to begin to face the fact that this may not be your one, true, love.
1) He’s Lost Interest This is pretty much the worst-case scenario for your relationship: when your man withdraws because he’s become disenchanted with how things are going between you two.
Maybe he’s found some fundamental incompatibilities between you, or maybe he’s simply decided that you aren’t exactly what he’s looking for.
You’re meeting, you’re talking, you’re hanging, you’re enjoying his company. He’s seen women like you freak out over and over again, so he just deals with it. So you look at him and say maybe we slept together too early. Now it’s 8.00pm and the neurotic you comes kicking right back and you’re like I haven’t heard from him all day long. He’s not going to sit there in a car or sit there at a rest stop with you and say, well gee, I don’t know if I can really date you right now. He’s going to have to retire from the seduction streak he’s been on.
It comes out of left field and the guy just sits there and shakes his head like a bobble head doll because he doesn’t know what the fuck to say. You’ll sleep with him and you’ll have that freak out moment because you enjoyed it so much but you’re not quite sure if he felt the same way. hmm, this is out of character You don’t hear from him. He’s super sexy right now and he’s connecting with lots of women. It’s primal and unreal and he connects with you and he’s on a roll. They’ve met so many women and each woman just gets better and better and better until all of a sudden he meets one that just blows him away. He realizes that the streak is going to have to end.