If you want to evolve from [pagebreak] Says Nerve.com’s dating columnist Caitlin Robinson, when contacting someone, you have to put a little effort into it.
It’s a sentiment that’s echoed by pretty much every woman we spoke with.
’” — Kristen, 27 The problem..the solution: Aside from the obvious inappropriate nature of the comment to a complete stranger, men should never mention their physical characteristics or their own body parts in an introductory message.
You do this by being original and, above all, specific about your interests.
Instead of saying that you like sunsets, mention the best sunset you’ve ever seen.
Unfortunately, kink dating is fraught with potential disaster.
A good example is Collar Me, which is designed for bringing perverts together. If you're looking for a long term relationship, you don't want to get involved with someone who just cares about the sex.