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One friend (who wishes to remain anonymous lest her non-boyfriend reads this) explains: “I’ve been seeing this guy for four months now – we’re dating and see each other a couple of times a week.
However, if anyone refers to me as his girlfriend in front of him, the colour drains from his face.
The easiest way to fake compatibility is to come on strong, quickly.
What would be the best way to shorten that time from 5 weeks to say, 1 week? Not that this is always the case but, fun fact, I went on a date with a girl once who saidand had sex with me so…it goes both ways I guess?
¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Now, as to how often you should see someone you’ve just started dating, once a week is a pretty good figure.
Until then, it’s all speculation, hope, fantasy, desire, wishful thinking, and potential. What I’m writing about is what you make all of this dating stuff MEAN. remember the phone session we had last month where we were looking at one of the guys who had written to me on Match.
See, you’re identifying each man as the problem here. After all, if 50% of all guys are going to disappoint, then this behavior is utterly predictable. But then after exchanging several emails and a few phone conversations, he told me he was dating someone else and that he would call if things didn’t work out, and I was a bit upset by that. She doesn’t assume that they’re “together” because they kissed.