Similarly, I introduced myself and asked a bit about her and her work. When I shared that he does come across as a little aloof he was surprised as it is the opposite of his intention.
When you feel upset with or challenged by someone, before you say or do something you might later regret, take a deep breath and count slowly to ten.You can increase your skill in dealing with the difficult people who surround you in your work world. But, how difficult a person is for you to deal with depends a lot on such factors as your self-esteem, your self-confidence, and your professional courage.Dealing with difficult people is easier when the person is just generally obnoxious or when the behavior affects more than one person. You do if you regularly feel intimidated, dread to work anywhere near a particular coworker and feel dismayed and upset about having to go to work.Bushong from Of course, if the person is a psychopath or something like that then this won't always apply but considering why the person is so aggressive can help you to understand the situation you're in and possibly give you some ideas on solutions.The following is a guest article by Peter Murphy with his 4 tips on how to deal with aggressive people. and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers is regarded as a self help classic. I read it many years ago and I was disappointed by the content of this book that has helped a lot of people take control of their fears. Because I believe we all have the power to go far beyond feeling the fear.