I don’t even know where to begin explaining why it’s incredibly narrow-minded and calling this a rule makes it even more ludicrous.A question that’s becoming more and more common among men nowadays is: “Who pays on a date? When you invite a girl on a date it’s your responsibility to take care of her.It is time to put an end to these eternal misconceptions about dating broadcasted to the world through Hollywood propaganda.Lamentable moves like 1) dinner dates, 2) going to the movies and 3) the 3-day rule are hopelessly enforced every day by millions of men, and they have no clue what went wrong when they end up going home alone.There are some good reasons why a woman may insist on paying for herself.So he is taking me out to dinner this weekend but we are not going out until 9 because he has to work until or so.
Another reason it’s important for men to pay for a date is that it sends a clear message of your intentions.
Ask any women and they’ll straight up tell you that although the romantic intent is adorable, these will not work!
And don’t forget, if any female tells you you’re adorable, you’re as good as gone.
If you want to avoid her seeing you in that light then paying for the date will go a long way. This may just be a courtesy, and her way of showing that you don’t have to pay for her.
But in these situations you want to tell her to put the purse away. That spending time with her and seeing that she is taken care of is more important than the handful of dollars you’re spending. It’s not often but every once in a while you may go on a date with a woman who absolutely refuses to let you pay for her. Offer to pay for her but if she is really persistent about it then just split the bill.