of The Couples Institute, recommends playing Twenty Questions with your partner because "They [questions] allow you to discover or rediscover who your partner is." By developing a deeper understanding of your partner's mind and spirit, you could find yourself more deeply in love.By encouraging people to tell stories about themselves, you not only learn about their history but also about them from the way they talk about their lives.Plus, they’ll make your dates far less boring and bring you closer.
This will clue you in to personality traits she values.2.The two pick at their dinner salads, staring down at the leafy mound before them. Finally, one of them tries to grease the wheels of conversation. The process begins by providing lots of space for the full expression of information and asking follow-up questions to further draw out the one talking. Think of conversation as a tennis match in which the players lob the ball back and forth. They ask personal or sensitive questions that put the other person on the defensive. If feeling inhibited is a problem for some people, others go to the opposite extreme: they use a date as an opportunity to purge and vent. When meeting a girl it’s helpful to ask them questions, both because they will feel you are truly interested in who they are and because you will want to know certain things.Going into a relationship, or for that matter: fling, blindfolded is never a good idea.