The deception in and of itself was bad enough, as she was forging deep connections with both, but the worst part?I want to talk about multiplicity in your dating life. They think someone who dates several people at once must be a cheater, a commitment-phobe or at a minimum, a liar.It's all about understanding the law of attraction. Until you go out and work on your inside, there's no way you're going to attract the person you want.If you live in fear and insecurity, you are going to meet someone exactly like you.When handled correctly, dating multiple men can be a wonderful experience; it can help you keep perspective, and your chances of feeling any sort of desperation are minimized.There comes a time in everybody’s dating career when your dance card suddenly becomes fuller than you know what to do with.One day, you’re swiping sullenly through Tinder bemoaning the lack of attractive, normal-seeming men that are possibly as tall as they say they are in their profiles, and the next, you find yourself drafting a spreadsheet to keep track of the nine dates that you have somehow booked for one week. Like all things in life, your dating life will ebb and flow.
However, I feel like you shouldn’t date more than one person for an extended period of time, the longer you are dating more than one person, the more emotionally invested other parties get and you can hurt more people.
I know that alcohol can seem like the most obvious solution when you’re nervous or trying to open up to someone new, but you MUST pace yourself.
There’s absolutely nothing attractive about a slurring hot mess. This is when knowing and sticking to your limits comes into play. So, you can only imagine how dating multiples just exacerbates this issue.
While this may be true of some women who are dating multiple people, I actually believe that there are many good (and, in fact, great) reasons to date several different people when you're single.
I even think that dating many people might be one of the best ways to find the one person you are really looking to find.