When sex happens before commitment, you’ll tend to read more into the relationship than what’s actually there.You’ll think there’s more of a connection then there really is.You’ll think that he’s more into you than he really is.Then you’ll become disappointed, sad or angry when things don’t work out.
Under the protection, guidance, and blessing of parents or mentors, the couple concentrates on developing a deep friendship that could lead to marriage, as they discern their readiness for marriage and God’s timing for their marriage. “But you’ll have to ask my dad for it.” Okay – the chances of this guy asking my dad were slim to none. The couple spends a lot of time alone, often in intimate settings. In modern dating there is little to no accountability from family, friends, or mentors. There was no way in the world I was giving this guy my phone number. Under the protection, guidance, and blessing of parents or mentors, the couple focuses on building a deep friendship that could lead to marriage. I pretended not to notice his chuckling friends in the background. Three, he wasn’t the type of guy I wanted to stay in “touch” with anyways. In fact, it advocates ‘playing the field’ in order to determine ‘what one wants’ in a mate.” If I asked you what your favorite drink was and you said soda, what would my next question be? A lot of people would agree that courtship could be described like this: A relationship between a guy and a girl for the purpose of seeking God’s will on whether or not they should marry each other.